Virgin Hair! A Natural Mess But I Love It 

I walked into the office on a day when I simply did not have time to wash, condition, blow dry, oil my scalp, then finally straighten my hair with a flat iron that gets hot enough to fry a 30 pound turkey. Stop and stare, and then that daring question commences, “Can I feel it?” This is most common reaction that naturals receive from the wash-n-go look. I’ve been natural for almost 9 years and still experience this reaction from people who already know me and have seen my hair curly on numerous occasions.

So when I actually find the time to execute the recipe list of steps and stretch my curls by flat ironing my hair…oh yes!!! The strands are bone straight, moistened, bouncy and absolutely lustrous! The reaction I received now is OMG your hair is sooooo beautiful! As I smile it brings this overwhelming sense of confidence and I instantaneously feel the urge to whip my hair like a Victoria’s Secret model. During  mid sentence I’m embracing every opportunity to nodd my head hard enough to see the fluidity of my fine locs shift across my face. 

I’ve been very experimental with my hair with different lengths, colors and textures. You name it, I’ve done it all! In retrospect, I believe my mother is to blame for my hair adventures because she had my sister and I helping in her salon as young kids. We probably learned how to dye our hair and apply acrylic nails before the age of 10. However you choose to wear your hair, where it with confidence. Hone it! And for my natural sistas who just can’t seem to manage their hair see my helpful tips below. 

For Natural Look:

Find the products that work for you and use them consistently. If all else fails, go back to the basics. I use organic coconut oils immediately after I wash the conditioner out of my hair. I’ve found that it helps moistened the proteins in the hair but doesn’t leave it feeling gritty or greasy. Apply your leave in conditioner and/or your curl activating serum and go. If your curly fro is doesn’t look even you can wear a head band or retractable bra strap to pull the hair together. In order to train those curls you have to apply moisture, daily in between washes. I mix leave in conditioner and water in a spray bottle and apply it every day. 

For the Straight Look: 
When wearing my hair straight I always deep condition before I apply the heat. Lather 3 times and apply conditioner. Leave the conditioner in for at least 30 minutes and wear a plastic cap to allow the natural heat from your body to permeate through the hair strands. Wash the conditioner out and apply the coconut oil throughout especially directly on your scalp. Divide your hair in to 2-4 sections to blow dry each one at a time. This ensures that the heat is applied evenly. You’ll find that it’s also easier to comb through when your hair is in sections. Then use an oil sheen spray on the hair just before you flat iron it. At the end of the day, wrap your hair and use a silk scarf to help retain the moisture. You might need to apply a small amount of oil, daily, to maintain moisture and shine. 

Products I use:

  • Kera Care Detangling shampoo and conditioner 
  • Mixed Chics Leave in conditioner 
  • Organic Coconut oil
  • Blue Magic Hair and Scalp Conditioner AKA ‘GREASE’ (Especially for the scalp applied at night)
  •  Pink Hair Glosser (Used when straightening)